TD, I've officiated for 44 years. Started when I was in college and have loved doing it ever since. I've worked some Mt. Airy games over the years, too, so I may be one of the guys you feel aren't doing our jobs. Hey, I'm human and I know I make some mistakes. All I can say is I try to give the kids my best effort every Friday night (and Wednesdays and Thursdays for that matter too).
After playing in high school, I also thought the officials didn't know what they were doing, so I decided that I would do my part to make things better by gracing these officials with my know-it-all presence. Well, the first thing I discovered is that it's a whole lot easier to talk good officiating than to do it. The rules are intricate, the coverage areas and keys require self-discipline and good judgment to police properly, and the job is made more difficult year after year because of the growing disrespect we get from not just fans (that's always been there), but from players and some coaches. Heck, when I played back in the 1970's, my coach would jerk a knot in our heads if we said anything to an official.
In short, I came in thinking I was going to be God's gift to officiating. It didn't take long for me to become VERY humbled. I've stuck with it, however, and absolutely can't fathom Friday nights in the fall without being out there on the field and being part of this sport I absolutely love. Unfortunately, we are so short on officials that our group (which covers Mt. Airy and about 100 other schools during the regular season and first two playoff rounds) that we have had to work varsity games with 4-man crews on occasion. Young people aren't getting into it any more, and old farts like me are retiring every year.
I've said a lot to get to this. If you truly feel that so many officials lack integrity, are incompetent, or have some kind of interest in the outcome, I invite you to do something about it -- join us -- be part of the solution!
It takes absolutely no commitment or courage to anonymously complain and bash the people who do the job. A person who really cares about the problem will do their best to constructively do something about it.
There is a local group of officials from our organization in your area who actually meet for clinics in Mt. Airy. Here is a link to information on becoming a football official:
https://northstatefootballofficials.com/