As you guys know I am very outspoken when it comes to NM ,but this is something a little different this is for all the parents out there,so listen close. I consider myself a very hard parent on both of my boys ,but I tell both of them everyday how proud I am of them,I also tell them how to better them selfs, but over the years my children have told me issues they have and I always tell them to suck it up, and tell them that need to do better and work harder ,because that is the way I was taught. When I was coming up we were giving no compassion ,but I have changed some over the last few years and recently I have to begin to watch certain things that go on around my sons and I have come to learn that they are telling the TRUTH about stuff that happens to them. I know life is not fair and they have already learned this at there young ages of 16 and 9 and I guess that is good ,because I hope and pray that they decide to be better people than they have had to put up with in their lives,so I guess what I ask is parents believe your children, not all of them are bad and remember it is very hard for a child to do what he or she is supposed to do and never be rewarded or praised this is my last post on here so take it however you want.GO NM
